They say that single parents have a back bone of steel and a heart of gold… and there’s room in that heart for even MORE!
Welcome! I’m Ray Hippolyte.
My mission is to help YOU attract your perfect partner and live the life of your dreams.
Not long ago my world imploded. The marriage that I thought would last forever crumbled. Suddenly, I was a single dad in NYC.
I have to admit that, at first, it was a struggle to face the reality of my new circumstances. But my love for my daughter, Victoria, gave me the courage I needed to face myself… and my demons. It forced me to dive deeper into the realm of spirituality in ways that I never thought I would in this lifetime.
I made it a priority to raise my level of awareness so I could be mindful of my energy around her. I built my spiritual muscles (character, integrity, courage, commitment) so I could be of service to her, while standing in my truth and being in integrity with my word at a time when it would have been much easier to lapse into feeling like a victim, or thinking negative thoughts about my ex.
You see, I really thought he was “the one”.
I believed that I’d already lived through enough struggle and heartache for one lifetime, and that I had already done the personal growth necessary to become who I was meant to to be. And I thought that Victoria was the beginning of our “Happily Ever After.” I truly believed that I would never feel unlovable and alone again.
And yet, here I was… again!
Feeling empty, unlovable and alone.
But I’d been here before! I’m no stranger to tragedy. When i was a young man my sister was shot and killed, It was the saddest moment in my life. But I also knew that it was a wake-up call. It was a powerful call-to-action to step up and live life fully and meaningfully.
After my sister died, I got into personal development. So after my husband left, I knew it was time to go back to that practice, only deeper and more intentionally this time.
I never used to be the type to pray. I believed that by being positive, having the courage to face our fears, and taking necessary actions was enough to create a better future. But now prayer and meditation are an integral part of my life. What a difference that has made in my life! It enabled me to face my struggle, accept the circumstances, and forgive myself and Jim in ways that made me feel freer and lighter than ever before. Miracles now happen in my life on a regular basis.
I’ve always taught that in order to FIND ‘the One’, you first needed to BE ‘the One,’ and I now fully understand that truth. Now, it’s not just important for me to become the best version of myself to attract the ideal partner… but to be a role model for Victoria!
Kind of obvious once you hear it, right? Because no one is out there writing on their wish-list: would love to meet angry, lonely, victimized guy (or gal) with low self-esteem and an air of hopelessness (like, NO-ONE).
So, for the second time in my life, something had to change – and it HAD to start with ME.
These days, I sometimes have to pinch myself … I just bought my dream home by the water and Victoria and I are having a blast. I feel incredibly blessed to share what I’ve learned with people all around the world, showing single parents how to Out Their Inner Awesome and attract the life and love of their dreams.
It’s all possible, no matter how badly you were hurt or where you find yourself currently in your life.
So, if my story resonates with you in any way, and you feel that YOU might be daring enough, brave enough and committed enough to be ‘The ONE’ in order to FIND ‘The ONE’… then I’d love to help you find YOUR happily ever after. Get started today with some free advice that will make a big difference immediately…grab your copy of my ‘Single Parent’s Guide to Love that Lasts: How to attract your perfect partner in 3 easy steps’.
Feel like you wasted enough time being sad and are READY to for YOUR dream life? I keep three spots open ever week for complimentary sessions as my gift to courageous single parents. If you’d like to chat, ask me a question or share YOUR story, click here to schedule.